I am not my hair,
I am not my eyebrows,
I am not my hunger,
I am not my tears.
I am not my anger,
I am not my hopes,
I am not my scars,
I am not my fears.
I am not my mother,
or my mother’s mother,
I am not my aunt or my sister
or my children or my husband.
I am not my past;
I am not my body;
I am the one inside,
along for the ride,
to get what there is
to get and to give
what I have to give.
Margaret Dubay Mikus
©1996
From As Easy as Breathing
and sung on Full Blooming (CD)